Grammy Great

We all, at some time in our lives, think about what the end will bring for us. Death can be sad or freeing, depending on length of life or things accomplished. It can also bring joy or pain depending on who you ask. Lucille Tate was Patrick's Mother's Mother. Born in 1917, she has obviously seen alot of change in her life time. I was privileged to meet her days before our wedding reception. If any of you have watched Pride and Prejudice, you would truly understand the statement that Grammy Great was an accomplished lady. Not only did she complete various degrees, raise 4 wonderful children, be a supportive wife, but she also was a great writer and illustrator. Her accomplishments included 3 biographies of apostles of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, but also other volumes on her father, herself, and Jon Huntsman. Her circle of influence spanned far and wide. As I was preparing the displays for the viewing, I marveled at the many accomplishments in her life. Her own son spoke of his mother as being as imaginative as Anne of Green Gables. I must confess that I too have been categorized similarly. Lucille was the epitome of what I want my life to be like. She received an art degree in California, married a wonderful man, raised 4 children, overcame debilitating depression, went back to school for her bachelors and masters and eventually received an honorary doctorate degree from BYU, wrote and illustrated books, was a wonderful seamstress and interior designer who worked for the church occasionally. Her needlework was flawless. She also served 2 missions, one with her husband and one with her sister when she was in her 80's. She wrote in her journal daily and included drawings and watercolors as well...almost like a blog! But she maintained balance. Her Grammy days were legendary among her grandchildren as they recall tea parties and fun times with Grandma and Grandpa. She took naps and realized she couldn't do everything and maintained structure in her household. If you are feeling a little envious or in awe...just wait...it gets better. Presiding at her funeral was the President of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, Boyd K Packer. (That is like the VP of the Mormons for those of you who aren't LDS) Elder L. Tom Perry was also present (one of the 12 Apostles of our church). President Packer spoke of his love of Lucille and her thorough research for his biography. They spoke every Monday and she and her husband became good friends of the Packers... then, the First Presidency (like the Pope) wrote a letter to be read at her funeral. Indeed she was an elect lady. An example to all, but I especially felt close to her. My "inheritance" was her sewing kit and her scarves. Her talents and aspirations are similar to mine. I can only hope that one day, others will rise up and call me blessed and praise my name as well. Lucille will be missed. She was an amazing inspiration to all that met her, but I am so glad that she was able to finish her course and endure to the end. She and George are looking down on us all, cheering us on through the good and the bad that we all must pass through...we love you Lucille!