Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Being Done

A women's work is never done. Isn't that how the saying goes? Laundry gets completed. Dishes get washed. The house gets cleaned. But honestly, it's never really done. The basket fills with dirty clothes just minutes after the last load is folded and tucked away in the drawers. The sink at my house is never empty. Although some homes I go to have a clean sink. This phenomena is a pure unadulterated miracle in my ever so humble opinion. With 3 meals and 2 snacks, 2 kids at home all day drinking, there is always something in the sink. I am not a "fly lady" and I think a polished sink is pure crap! Maybe when my kids are all in school, the kitchen will stay clean...yeah, not going to happen either. And I will let you in on a little secret as to why later...

Today is laundry day. Washing, drying, sorting, pretreating, making a new batch of laundry soap rounded out the days activities.
(this is the first step in creating the homemade laundry soap)

But again. It's not done. There is 5 pieces of clothing sitting in the basket in my Done Laundry room. During the whole process of laundry today (that's right, the whole day), I decorated and painted a project while waiting for the next load to dry.
(not a fan of fake green stuff, but it's a laundry room with no window)

If I don't fold it the moment it comes out of the dryer, it will sit there for days in a heap on the floor. My clothes never leave the laundry room however. I don't fold in front of the TV. They don't go on my bed. Why? It's not because I am some laundry Goddess. It's because I am lazy. Why add an extra step of transporting all those clothes into another room? So they got folded and placed in baskets. (My system is a basket for every kid and they put them away on there own.) And now I have a clean and decorated Laundry room for me, myself, and I. It's my room. So why not hang a pretty picture right? As I listen to the intoxicating hum of the dryer, I drift off into la la land. What do I want to be when I grow up?...Where am I going to go to school?...How am I going to pay for my kids missions and college educations?....and then the buzzer breaks my thought. Another load to fold and I start on my next project.

My home has a very unique floor plan. When you enter, it looks like any other 2 story with stairs off to the side and an entry leading to a living room or family room. But we have an extra door beside the closet that holds My Hallway.
It is the mudroom, laundry room, and pantry all tucked into it's own little hall of fame. (my babies minus Evan...his hangs there waiting for that first preschool pic)

It's completely capable of being closed off (to hide the clutter when people pop in unexpectedly). So in my quest for Done, I completed this hallway today in addition to the Laundry room and I must say it felt good. Painting the hooked shelf, (green underneath and I even drilled the holes myself and installed it with toggle type screws)

hanging the cork board, sweeping, lining all the laundry baskets up for the kids to take when they returned from school, this is Nirvana!

So here's to being Done. Laundry room and Mud room conquered. Now for the revealed secret, I just sent away for info to go to school....culinary school that is...and more specifically, Pastry Chef and Baker....big step in the right direction as far as I'm concerned....

Being Done gives you room to start something new.

Sunday, June 7, 2009

Brighten is Baptized


My Baby looking so grown up :(





She lost a tooth the day before...
This is my Beautiful Brighten that is not Baby Brighten anymore. Although I think I could still call her Bitty Brighten because she is a tiny little thing. I made the dress out of extra drapery lining I had from drapes I made 2 years ago and the beads were from a project that I never completed...all in all, the dress cost 2.99 for the ribbon. The buttons were even free as they appeared miraclously on the ground outside our barn one day. Totally not joking either...the Lord works in mysterious ways.
She is now a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints! I imagine great things in her future. She is a strong one...like her mother.

Thursday, June 4, 2009

Auction Projects

Long ago, in a land far far away, lived a humble farm girl that wanted to volunteer at her children's school. She had signed up in the fall for not one, but two class auction projects. After the holiday season was over, the calls began. "Remember that you signed up for the Auction Project parent for 5th grade and PM Kindergarten?" the voice on the other end reminded her sweetly. So the farm girl in question began racking her brain to find something that the parents would actually want and something the kids could participate in. She purchased a second hand hutch, a can of primer, and a can of Asparagus paint from Behr. She had everything else on hand. Then the farm girl went to Craft Warehouse and got fabulous metal stars and scrapbook paper. She had taken the first bite and now had to finish...

The kindergarten stars involved developing a template, cutting pieces out for 6 stars and inking all the edges of the paper. When the day came to go to the Kindergarten room, she was confident that the kids could really accomplish this. Decoupage glue with a few foam brushes and the project was well on it's way to being complete. With a little help from another farm girl and a stash of spare ribbon, the project was finished.

The Hutch was a huge undertaking. Not only did the farm girl have to load the hutch into her SUV, but also had to wheel it down the long hallway to the 5th grade classroom on the other side of the building. Teachers and students alike, peered out of the doors to see what was being delivered. Then came the priming. 9 children huddled around two pieces of furniture, straining to make their mark, was quite an undertaking. The farm girl learned that 5 graders definitely need deodorant. Day two, was the base color. Day 3 was the sanding and staining. Day four, was spent feverishly trying to get the fabric and the new knobs with screws that were breaking their ity bitty heads off, installed. Another trip to Home Depot and then back the the dreaded 5th grade classroom, and finally, is was complete.

The night of the auction came. The day before, she had received several calls asking if it was ok to sell the stars separately and if there was anyway the children could sign the inside of the hutch..huh? Anxiety crept in. Were they going to be good enough? She had heard that this school was sort of Elitist. Would anybody buy them? Well that night, as she went to the auction just to add a last minute shelf to the inside of the hutch, she was suddenly bombarded with cheesy quilts with photos of kids, benches with sponge painting on them, mosaic planters....ok time to breathe. Her creations were a hit. The auction chair then approached the farm girl and gave a her a huge smile. "Finally, another mother that has some creative ability! I am so glad you are here!" The farm girl then replied, "I'm moving in a month..."

I came, I crafted, and I left realizing that I had nothing to fear. I am good at what I do even with the help of elementary students by my side.

Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Dirt Digger Paradise

My baby is 3! It was only yesterday that I felt like my back was going to break as they finally gave me an epidural after 8 hours of hard labor...14 hours later, I had this large cranium boy that was the perfect end to our family. Evan's birthday was a monumental one for us. The Cars underwear, set of matchbox cars, and Goldfish as "Targets" were included in the presents. Here comes Potty Training. Getting him to wear the underwear will be a feat in of itself. He begged to wear his diaper yesterday.

Being on the brink of Poverty...ok really...it's a minor miracle to pull off a memorable birthday without money. This is when I start to thank my Mother for my creative ability. With all of her crazy mental ways, her genes and example gave me the ability to pull miracles out of garbage. So I really wanted to give Evan something he could use this summer. He needed clothes, so I got some great stuff at Target. I was salivating over the wooden sandbox that was only $84, but knew it wasn't going to happen. Then my brain started working....3 dinosaurs and 3 sand tools later, I hatched the plan.

When the kids got home from school, I had a family meeting. We all needed to work together to make Evan's birthday memorable. While he was down for a nap, the rest of the kids and I went to work in the Garden. They weeded. They hoed. They tilled. And then it was done. Patrick found some scrap wood and I painted a sign for Evan's own Dirt Digger Paradise. That's right, we gave Evan his own raised bed in the garden to dig in for his birthday. It was free. It was fun. It was just what every 3 year old dreams of. Best of all, when I spend all that time in the garden this summer, Evan and Anderson will have something to keep them occupied for hours. Don't you just love ingenuity?

Saturday, May 30, 2009

Funny Things

Christian: "Mommy, can I go outside and observe nature?"
Mommy: Laughing out loud...wheres the bathroom?... might pee my pants...
Christian: "Mommy, why are you laughing?"
Mommy: "Oh nothing...yes you can go outside and observe nature"(snicker)

Sometimes I cannot believe that I gave birth to these creatures.
What in the heck is he going to be when he grows up?

Friday, May 29, 2009

How To Live On Less

If you are from this planet, you have seen the decline of the economy effect you in small and big ways. As an Oregonian, the unemployment rate is upwards of 12% right now. Those calculations seem small to me. Do they take into account those who do not file jobless claims or who are underemployed? Gas is beginning to climb again. We are living very meagerly right now as I suspect many out there are. In my quest to make ends meet, I have researched and experimented with a few cost cutting measures.

1. Make your own Laundry detergent. 2 cups of borax powder, 2 cups of Washing Soda powder and a grated bar of Fels Naptha soap makes a great alternative to Tide and it is like 7 cents a load. You only use 2 tablespoons a load (I have a front loader and it works just fine.)

2. Potty Train toddlers. My guy is two, almost three. It's summer, the perfect time to let little hinies run around naked and learn where to go potty.

3. Use powdered milk. Everything you bake or cook, you can use powdered milk. It tastes almost the same. You can even make sweetened condensed milk from powdered milk. Saves needless trips to the grocery store...

4. Turn down your water heater. We keep it just barely hot enough that you can't run your hand through it when you wash dishes. We just turn it up when we know that everyone in our family takes showers...(at our house, Patrick and I are daily showerers, but our children are 2 times a week. Don't get grossed out. They are little kids. They don't play sports. That is how the Europeans do it. If they are really dirty, we do more, but that is what running through the sprinklers is for! LOL!) We have a well, so we don't pay for our water, but seriously, have your kids share bathtub water...better yet share the shower as spouses.

5. Don't use the air conditioning if you have it. Let's face it people, we are a bunch of pansies! If you live in Oregon, and you are trying to shave some pennies off, get yourself a fan and a spray bottle. Open your windows at night. Close the blinds in the morning on really hot days. Some of us don't have the option of which I am grateful. I'm sure in August, I'll be taking cold showers, but 85-90 degrees is tolerable without air if you are smart about it.

6. Gym Membership...Yeah right!!! Take walks around the neighborhood with weights. Clean out your garage and check out exercise videos from the library or a friend.

7. Recycle more. Get a smaller Garbage can. Our garbage service has 3 sizes. I wont tell you to stop it all together and just throw it in some business garbage because that would be illegal....but I wont say that in desperation, I haven't done it myself.

8. Make as much as you can from scratch. I make all of my own bread, cereal, granola bars, cookies, cakes, biscuits, gravy, soups, etc. I also make waffles, pancakes, and french toast and then freeze them for quick breakfasts. I am going to try my hand at crackers this week. The more processed a food is, the less nutritional value it has. Try air popped popcorn. It's so much cheaper and has less fat and salt. It's amazing how far we have strayed from real food. Can you pronounce everything on your food labels?

9. Don't eat out. We are only one generation removed from a life that rarely saw a restaurant. You'll get healthier. You'll sit at the table with your kids more. Make double and freeze one meal so that you can have fast food that is healthy.

10. Cut the cable. It really makes no sense to my family, who rarely watches TV to have cable. We had it for a few months last year and honestly, it just made the house messy. The library has movies you can check out for a week...and it's free! We watch movies. And while I am in the kitchen, cooking all this food, I watch various online TV programs for free. Ok well it's not free, but we have to have Internet for my husbands job, so we only have to pay for one thing. There are plenty of free games and educational things on the Internet for kids. You can even use it to call people, as of yet, I haven't figured that one out yet.

11. Get rid of your land line or cell phone. We had no land line for a year. It saved us tons of money. Unfortunately, you must live in an area that gets your cell phone provider coverage. Living out in the boonies, we have shotty reception. I can't leave my kids without a way to get a hold of me or emergency services. But we have scaled back on our phone plans.

12. Make your own cleaning products. Vinegar, baking soda, lemon juice, bon ami, dish soap are really all you need. Almost everything can be cleaned with these substances. I do enjoy a good magic eraser and some bleach, but besides that, you don't need all those chemicals. Your house will be healthier and you will save tons of dough!

13.Grow a garden! Pots on balconies, inbetween flowers around the house. Stick a pumpkin plant in a flower bed and instant fall decor! Really, you can save tons of money and eat so much better. Food is starting to crawl up in price. Fresh produce is outrageously expensive. Grow what you eat. My family hates peppers. We don't grow them. But we love squash...all kinds so I have several varieties growing in my garden. We eat a ton of basil, but not eggplant. You get the picture. Also...give at least 10 percent of that produce away to others...you'll be blessed.

14.Learn how to mend and sew. It's not cost effective to sew your own clothing these days. But if you are frugal about it, it can really stretch your clothing. Learning how to sew on buttons, holes in socks, hemming pants is a great skill to have. I know that as I am losing lots of weight, I have had to learn how to alter my clothing out of necessity. It's not really cost effective to have to buy smaller clothing when I am still losing weight. On the subject of clothing, find a friend that has kids that wants to swap hand me downs. I have three boys and some of the clothes my oldest wore are now on my youngest and still nice. Look for clearance, sales. My oldest girl is growing. She needs clothes for summer. I found a great shirt for church but it was sewn wrong and so it was on clearance. It took fifteen minutes and a needle and thread to fix. Now she doesn't have to wear velvet dresses in the summer to church.

15. Don't buy anything new. Well I stop at underwear, but Craigslist is amazing. We need a lawnmower. We will be getting it on craigslist. Thrift stores and Antique shops are great places for finds.

16. Limit car use. Lump errands together. Do most things online. Ever thought about one car? Have a grocery list and go once a week. I used to use a tank of gas every 4-5 days. Now I can go almost two weeks. Not fun sometimes, but it is doable.

17.Most of all, don't be judgemental or stingy if you are going through a rough time. If you have extra, give it to someone who could use it. It'll come back around when you really need it most. It has for me. Just because you are going through a hard time doesn't somehow let you off the hook. Your neighbors and friends are probably in the same boat. If we all help each other, we can make it through this tight economy and come away better for it. Remember the story of Stone Soup?

Hope these help some of you out there that are trying to shave off the pennies.

Monday, May 25, 2009

Today


a recent shot of me on my deck...getting smaller



Today I had to water the garden. Today I laid out on my deck for an hour and a half. Today I cleaned someone else's house for service. Today, I should have put sunscreen on. Today my kids played in the water fountain at a park in Tualatin. Today I wore a short sleeve shirt at 7:00 in the morning on my run and didn't freeze. Today I wore flip flops and Capri pants. Today I am harvesting the Broccolini from my garden...the first thing I grew from seed that I get to eat this year. Today, I can park my large vehicle in the garage, but instead it will become my own personal dance floor (now all I need is a ballet bar and some mirrors.) Today is the last day that I will have a jungle growing outside as it will be mowed and weeded tomorrow by someone other than me for free! Today is a good day. Tomorrow is going to be even better! I can just feel it...